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You don't even know what you don't know. Often clients come into my office realizing that they're missing something in life, but they're...
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Let That Voice Out
From day one of my life on earth, I'm pretty sure I had a solid opinion. Some people call that a strong will. From that point forward...
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Emotional Immaturity & Marriage: Am I Married to an Emotional Child?
In my part of the world, a lot of people get married when they're young. While most of us are physically mature enough to start a family...
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Lust: Wanting a Different Life
For most of my religious life " lust" has been the term used by my community to shame any out-of-bounds sexual behavior. People use it...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Nov 4, 2024
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Sexpectations
Maybe it seems way too formal to talk with your partner about what you each expect in bed. Maybe it doesn't seem sexy. But remember that...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Mar 18, 2024
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5 Reasons Sex Education is Important
Does sex education matter or is it just a special interest for some? My kids aren’t having sex right now— why would they need to know...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Dec 25, 2023
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Masturbation & Christianity: Is it a Sin to Explore Your Body?
The topic of masturbation has long been a point of shock and horror for many Christian circles. The word itself elicits faces of disgust...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Nov 27, 2023
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9 Tips to Prepare for a Healthy Marriage
So you’ve picked a phenomenal person to tie the knot with. You want a healthy marriage. You want your union to last. You want to honor...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Aug 14, 2023
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What Can Christian Couples Do Before Marriage?
When it comes to navigating Christian relationships, it’s not uncommon to be curious about how your Christianity applies to your sexual...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jul 17, 2023
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How to Play the Game
I spend time talking with a lot of couples who have "lost the spark" in their marriages. Something between them has dulled over the...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
May 15, 2023
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Why is the Player Attractive?
Because he's attuned. He's got a skill we all appreciate—being paid close attention to. Of course we don't want to be stalked and hunted...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
May 8, 2023
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What's the Real Problem: Masturbation or Porn?
A lot of Christians are vehemently opposed to porn. They don't like the masochistic themes, the unethical treatment of women and...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Apr 10, 2023
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Romance Isn't That Difficult
Sometimes when I talk about romance, I can hear the groans and see the eye rolls before the words are even out of my mouth. A lot of...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Feb 6, 2023
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What to Do When Your Kid Dresses Immodestly?
I have wrestled with this question so much because I grew up hearing I needed to "act like a lady," meaning cross my legs when I sat. I...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Oct 10, 2022
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Porn? But How...
Pornographic (adj). - designed to elicit arousal from the audience. That's right. Pornography includes any media or art form designed to...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Nov 29, 2021
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Porn? So what...
The first time I found porn I was about eleven at a friend's house. At that point it was interesting and odd, but definitely already had...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Nov 22, 2021
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Rec: Unwanted by Jay Stringer
Working with another therapist a few months ago, I got a recommendation for a book that has now blown my mind. In Unwanted, How Sexual...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Oct 17, 2021
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My People
My most recent big writing project pushed me in very uncomfortable ways. It had to happen quickly. It was over an inflammatory, delicate...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Aug 22, 2021
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Penis Importante
I've discovered a hidden biblical theme that is going to make some of you very uncomfortable. Pouring over the stories, I'm finding some...
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Oct 11, 2020
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