For most of my religious life " lust" has been the term used by my community to shame any out-of-bounds sexual behavior. People use it...

Maybe it seems way too formal to talk with your partner about what you each expect in bed. Maybe it doesn't seem sexy. But remember that...

Does sex education matter or is it just a special interest for some? My kids aren’t having sex right now— why would they need to know...

The topic of masturbation has long been a point of shock and horror for many Christian circles. The word itself elicits faces of disgust...

So you’ve picked a phenomenal person to tie the knot with. You want a healthy marriage. You want your union to last. You want to honor...

When it comes to navigating Christian relationships, it’s not uncommon to be curious about how your Christianity applies to your sexual...

I spend time talking with a lot of couples who have "lost the spark" in their marriages. Something between them has dulled over the...

Because he's attuned. He's got a skill we all appreciate—being paid close attention to. Of course we don't want to be stalked and hunted...

A lot of Christians are vehemently opposed to porn. They don't like the masochistic themes, the unethical treatment of women and...

Sometimes when I talk about romance, I can hear the groans and see the eye rolls before the words are even out of my mouth. A lot of...

I have wrestled with this question so much because I grew up hearing I needed to "act like a lady," meaning cross my legs when I sat. I...

Pornographic (adj). - designed to elicit arousal from the audience. That's right. Pornography includes any media or art form designed to...

The first time I found porn I was about eleven at a friend's house. At that point it was interesting and odd, but definitely already had...

Working with another therapist a few months ago, I got a recommendation for a book that has now blown my mind. In Unwanted, How Sexual...

My most recent big writing project pushed me in very uncomfortable ways. It had to happen quickly. It was over an inflammatory, delicate...

I've discovered a hidden biblical theme that is going to make some of you very uncomfortable. Pouring over the stories, I'm finding some...