Lust: Wanting a Different Life
For most of my religious life " lust" has been the term used by my community to shame any out-of-bounds sexual behavior. People use it...
top of page
Search
Sexpectations
Maybe it seems way too formal to talk with your partner about what you each expect in bed. Maybe it doesn't seem sexy. But remember that...
70 views1 comment
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Dec 25, 2023
5 Reasons Sex Education is Important
Does sex education matter or is it just a special interest for some? My kids aren’t having sex right now— why would they need to know...
114 views0 comments
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Nov 27, 2023
Masturbation & Christianity: Is it a Sin to Explore Your Body?
The topic of masturbation has long been a point of shock and horror for many Christian circles. The word itself elicits faces of disgust...
1,118 views0 comments
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Aug 14, 2023
9 Tips to Prepare for a Healthy Marriage
So you’ve picked a phenomenal person to tie the knot with. You want a healthy marriage. You want your union to last. You want to honor...
159 views0 comments
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Jul 17, 2023
What Can Christian Couples Do Before Marriage?
When it comes to navigating Christian relationships, it’s not uncommon to be curious about how your Christianity applies to your sexual...
11,365 views5 comments
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
May 15, 2023
How to Play the Game
I spend time talking with a lot of couples who have "lost the spark" in their marriages. Something between them has dulled over the...
58 views0 comments
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
May 8, 2023
Why is the Player Attractive?
Because he's attuned. He's got a skill we all appreciate—being paid close attention to. Of course we don't want to be stalked and hunted...
50 views0 comments
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Apr 10, 2023
What's the Real Problem: Masturbation or Porn?
A lot of Christians are vehemently opposed to porn. They don't like the masochistic themes, the unethical treatment of women and...
199 views0 comments
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Feb 6, 2023
Romance Isn't That Difficult
Sometimes when I talk about romance, I can hear the groans and see the eye rolls before the words are even out of my mouth. A lot of...
75 views0 comments
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Oct 10, 2022
What to Do When Your Kid Dresses Immodestly?
I have wrestled with this question so much because I grew up hearing I needed to "act like a lady," meaning cross my legs when I sat. I...
40 views0 comments
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Nov 29, 2021
Porn? But How...
Pornographic (adj). - designed to elicit arousal from the audience. That's right. Pornography includes any media or art form designed to...
69 views0 comments
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Nov 22, 2021
Porn? So what...
The first time I found porn I was about eleven at a friend's house. At that point it was interesting and odd, but definitely already had...
149 views0 comments
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Oct 17, 2021
Rec: Unwanted by Jay Stringer
Working with another therapist a few months ago, I got a recommendation for a book that has now blown my mind. In Unwanted, How Sexual...
76 views0 comments
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Aug 22, 2021
My People
My most recent big writing project pushed me in very uncomfortable ways. It had to happen quickly. It was over an inflammatory, delicate...
97 views0 comments
Brandi K Harris, MS, LPC & LMFT
Oct 11, 2020
Penis Importante
I've discovered a hidden biblical theme that is going to make some of you very uncomfortable. Pouring over the stories, I'm finding some...
85 views0 comments
bottom of page